"You may have a large bunch of people around you. You may also have a huge friend circle and not willing to add more names to that. But you will fall for her friendship. It's inevitable. That energy which flows out when she speaks. The spark spark in her eyes and the way they crunch when she smiles and laughs, the way her eyes get rolled up when something dorky is said, the way she reacts when she is down and sad; every single thing of hers will force you to be-friend her. You should know that her eyes light up when she talks about moon and space, you need to calm her down when she's excited or else she will end up apologizing!! You should know that she hates being called liar too. Make sure you make her feel her presence. Make sure you always meet after certain time gap. Promise me you will never complain about her to her of not sticking to her promises. Or else tears will roll out from her eyes. She has always been there for her best friend and I assure you her presence whenever needed. Sometimes she would be down with unkown reason, tell her that 'day & night' are parts & parcels of life. Ensure your presence whenever needed. She, if feels comfortable with you, would sing over the phone. A magical voice filled with positivity would enter you ears and make you function in positive manner. Do not get irritated for the reason she loves to talk and share. While ending the day ensure she takes a sound sleep or else she would be grumpy the very next day. Make sure that the smile on her face never disappears. She love chocolates. And do not mix up yourself with it coz you would be a 'nut'. Appreciate her, praise her every single moment when after the tiring day she plans to have coffee with you.
To the one who would be her next 'Besty', ensure that you don't mix up the things.
To whomsoever she makes her best friend, appreciate every single moment that makes you feel that you both are the 'BEST Friends FOREVER'."
To the one who would be her next 'Besty', ensure that you don't mix up the things.
To whomsoever she makes her best friend, appreciate every single moment that makes you feel that you both are the 'BEST Friends FOREVER'."
-Pushkin Channan
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ReplyDeleteI like how you say your goodbye, wrapped up in nostalgia, and peacefully. How in that peace, there is a sense of loss and acceptance. How you have noted the small things that make her, her. I like that you say all of that to her next best friend - because it's not important you're not the bestie anymore, it's important that she is happy. I like how it shows your love and appreciation for the beauty her presence brought to your life.
ReplyDeleteThis piece is so full of love and quiet acceptance. Hope you find more people to care for as deeply as you did her.
Dear Anonymous,
DeleteThanks for the beautiful comment. However she still does't have the large number of friends. And I feel lucky enough to still be her Best Friend. There is no better 'Best Friend than a Sister'
I like how you say your goodbye, wrapped up in nostalgia, and peacefully. How in that peace, there is a sense of loss and acceptance. How you have noted the small things that make her, her. I like that you say all of that to her next best friend - because it's not important you're not the bestie anymore, it's important that she is happy. I like how it shows your love and appreciation for the beauty her presence brought to your life.
ReplyDeleteThis piece is so full of love and quiet acceptance. Hope you find more people to care for as deeply as you did her.
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ReplyDeleteThankyou. Keep showcasing your love.
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